We don’t always think things through before we speak.

Our opinions aren’t fixed points. They shift with new experiences, new information, and even our moods. Biases, self-interest, and stress can also affect what we say in ways we don’t always notice.

And we’re not always honest about what we think — even with ourselves. Sometimes what we really think is deeper, beneath the masks we wear, beneath our emotions, and beneath the noise of the day.

So don’t expect anyone to be perfect. Expect some inconsistency. But be cautious with people who are chronically inconsistent—whether it’s their words shifting, their stories contradicting, or their actions causing harm. Because if they are, something is off. And if you trust them more than they’ve earned, eventually you’ll pay a price.