It seems inherent to human nature to take sides— often without much thought. This might make things seem simple, but it can also blind us to alternative perspectives and opportunities to find common ground. Throughout history, this tendency has been a contributing factor to conflicts and persecution across races, nationalities, and religions.

This tendency even exists in childhood. Think of the elementary school playground. As adults, our reasoning may mature, but remnants of this juvenile mentality still shape certain attitudes and actions.

Few things in life are absolute. To understand the world, we must  look for the connections, overlaps, and entanglements. By keeping in mind that most things are complex and nuanced, we give ourselves the ability to see the bigger picture.

In society, polar opposites are often exaggerated—especially in politics, where opposing parties seem to embody exclusive views. Yet, we are paradoxical beings, capable of understanding and arguing both sides if we choose to. The divisions within groups often mirror the inner contradictions we face as individuals.

On the surface, we may appear to desire vastly different things. But beneath it all, our fundamental needs are similar: love, peace, joy, unity, security, and belonging.