“Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.” ~ Rumi
There is a universal language. A language of the heart/spirit.
When we communicate from that place, we understand each other. When we don’t go deep enough to meet each other in that place, there is distortion and conflict.
The more you understand someone, the less you can be angry with them.