We don’t always know how to explain why we prefer one thing over another. Sometimes, we aren’t able to put it into words.

Sometimes that’s because we haven’t thought it through. Other times, it’s simply because what we feel doesn’t fit neatly into the logical boxes we try to put it in.

If we do try to explain it, we might sound like we’re making excuses, even when we’re not. As long as we’re being honest with ourselves, that’s what matters most, because sometimes we really are trying to justify poor choices.

And if we’re honest with ourselves, we’ll be honest with others, too.