Behind every aspiration is a motive. The why. The real reason you want to change. We don’t always ask ourselves that question. And when we do we don’t always answer it honestly.

If we can get to the heart of the why, we might see that some of our aspirations are misdirected. What you want to be might not be good for you.

And it might not be what you actually want. You might think it’s what you should want—unaware of better options.